Grief Counseling | Rochester Hills, Clarkston, & Grand Blanc, MI

Do you feel lost in the fog of grief?

Do you sense that the world is moving on without you, leaving you feeling isolated? 

Do you find yourself merely going through the motions of daily life, without truly engaging or feeling alive?

The loss of a loved one is one of the most profound and challenging experiences we can endure. The emotional landscape during this time can be filled with feelings of guilt, longing, numbness, disbelief, loneliness, and deep sorrow. It’s as if you are trapped in a heavy cocoon of despair, while everyone around you seems to carry on with their lives as if nothing has changed. 

It’s important to recognize that grief and loss are universal experiences that can have a profound impact on our everyday existence. While we often link grief solely to the death of a loved one, it is crucial to understand that it can also arise from significant life changes. Events such as losing a job, going through a divorce, relocating to a new city, children leaving home to start their own lives, retirement, or even a major career shift can evoke a grieving response. Each of these transitions can cause a deep sense of loss and require us to adapt to a new reality. 

Acknowledging and processing these feelings is an essential step in navigating through the challenges of grief. Understanding that you are not alone in this experience can help you start to heal.


YOU ARE NOT ALONE!

Everyone encounters grief and loss at some point in their lives, whether it stems from the death of a cherished loved one or from other significant changes and losses. Although each person's response to grief is deeply personal and varies widely, there are several common symptoms that many people may experience during this challenging time. 

These symptoms can include:

  •  Overwhelming sorrow: This profound sense of sadness can feel all-consuming, making it difficult to find joy or comfort in everyday moments. 
  • Frustration or resentment regarding the loss: Individuals may grapple with feelings of anger or bitterness toward the situation, themselves, or even the person they have lost. 
  • Feelings of responsibility: Some may feel guilt or believe that they could have done something to prevent the loss, leading to a heavy burden of self-blame. 
  • Worry or anxiety: Grieving individuals might experience heightened anxiety about the future, fearing further loss or feeling uncertain about how to navigate their lives without the person or thing they have lost. 
  • Isolation and disconnection: Many people find it challenging to connect with others during their grief, leading to feelings of loneliness and emotional detachment from friends and family. 
  • Detachment or disbelief: A sense of numbness or an inability to fully accept the reality of the loss can prevent individuals from processing their emotions effectively. 
  • Reduced social interactions: The desire to withdraw from social engagements can increase, as people may feel too overwhelmed or emotionally drained to participate in activities they once enjoyed. 
  • Decreased motivation: Everyday tasks, such as going to work or maintaining household responsibilities, may become daunting, making it difficult to find the energy to engage in routine activities. 
  • Avoidance of reminders: Some individuals may choose to avoid places, activities, or even conversations that trigger memories of their loss, hoping to escape the pain associated with those reminders. 
  • Persistent thoughts about the loss: Obsessive thoughts about the loss can dominate a person's mind, making it hard to focus on other aspects of life or find peace. 

Recognizing and understanding these symptoms is essential in the journey of navigating grief. By acknowledging these feelings, individuals can begin to process their complex emotions and gradually find their way toward healing. The good news is that with the help of a compassionate, empathetic grief counselor you can begin to experience joy again. 

GRIEF COUNSELING CAN HELP YOU REGAIN JOY IN YOUR LIFE

Grief counselors play a vital role in helping individuals navigate their feelings of loss and sorrow. They guide you in exploring the complex emotions associated with grief, fostering a safe and supportive environment where you can express your thoughts openly. Through establishing a strong rapport and trust with your counselor, you will find it easier to confront your feelings, whether they be sadness, anger, guilt, or confusion. 

Our experienced counselors practice unconditional positive regard, creating a compassionate space that empowers you to rise above the haze of grief. During your initial session, your grief counselor will conduct an in-depth assessment, gathering essential information about your loss. This includes understanding how the loss occurred, the nature of your relationship with the deceased, and how this loss has affected your family dynamics and daily life. By delving into these factors, you and your counselor will collaboratively establish specific, achievable goals for your therapy journey, outlining what you hope to achieve and the changes you wish to see in your life moving forward. 

A significant aspect of grief counseling involves regaining confidence in everyday activities and responsibilities that may have shifted due to your loss. For instance, if your loved one was the primary caretaker of household finances, your counselor will help you navigate the transition to managing these tasks independently. This support aims to equip you with practical skills and coping mechanisms to handle daily challenges, ensuring you leave therapy feeling empowered and prepared for the future. 

Another crucial element of grief counseling is developing effective communication and boundary-setting skills, particularly with family members or friends who may have differing expectations or support styles. Your counselor will work with you to articulate your needs clearly and establish healthy boundaries, enabling you to protect your emotional well-being during this vulnerable period. 

Let Us Help You Navigate Through Your Grief 

At Giesken Counseling Services, our dedicated therapists specialize in grief counseling and bring extensive experience to the table, having helped countless individuals navigate their unique grief journeys. When you reach out to us for support, we will carefully match you with a counselor who has the appropriate expertise in grief work, ensuring you receive the best possible care. 

Recognizing that making the first call can be daunting, our compassionate team is committed to easing you into the process, guiding you through the initial steps with empathy and understanding. Contact GCS today, and let us support you as you embark on your journey toward healing and renewed joy in life. 

If you're interested, check out our client testimonials for evidence of our therapists' success with clients. GCS Reviews

Giesken Counseling Services provides in-person and online counseling sessions in Clarkston, Grand Blanc, and Rochester Hills, MI. Contact our office today by calling (810) 626-5191 or clicking the link below to schedule a FREE 15-minute consultation or make an appointment.

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Client Testimonials

"We work with Alexis and love her! This place responds to questions and concerns promptly and is flexible with our schedule when making appointments."

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"With a multitude of counselors under their roof, Giesken Counseling will no doubt have the best fit person to speak with you, no matter the specific need at hand. Their office is truly compassionate and genuinely committed to helping their clients work through the obstacles they are facing. It's a safe and non-judgmental environment where you will feel comfortable opening up about your needs, concerns, and struggles." 

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"I've been with Giesken Counseling Services for 1 year and have loved every experience! We are a growing and thriving practice and have such an amazing team of therapists and staff who offer quality support and services to our community."

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"I saw Jerilynn for about a year and a half, and I feel so lucky to have found her when I did. I met with her during a time when my anxiety and self-esteem were major obstacles, and she helped me realize what changes I needed to make in my life. She was compassionate yet objective and provided constructive reminders when I needed them. Her office is warm and inviting, I always felt comfortable. I highly recommend!"

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“I’m doing much better than when I first started therapy.”

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“Very nice staff members and a comfortable environment.”

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“My therapist is well-informed, relatable, receptive, and helpful. She has provided multiple resources for me with anything I’d like to learn more about. She consistently holds me accountable and is kind in helping me grow. It’s the strongest therapeutic relationship I’ve ever experienced with a therapist.”

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“My therapist is wonderful. She always makes me feel safe and listened to. I can tell she truly cares about her clients.”

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"My therapist is open to listening to my concerns and issues and provides feedback and suggestions."

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"My daughter has been practicing techniques at home that she learns with her therapist. She has definitely grown, and her conditions have improved since beginning with Giesken Counseling."

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"My daughter's therapist is absolutely wonderful and has truly helped my daughter!"

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"The office is a safe space for me, I always feel comfortable to talk about anything and everything."

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"I love everything about Jessica - very good at listening but also balancing it with her talking too."

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“Having a good relationship with a therapist was something I struggled to find. I feel like my therapist listens and doesn't judge me. I trust her, and that makes it easy to open up.”

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“My experience has been very smooth and easy since the very beginning of sending an inquiry email to now being in the care of my therapist for a few months. I have referred many clients to your practice and will continue to do so. Thank you so much for offering immediate and complete support and multiple options for patients.”

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“My daughter is actually excited to see her therapist. It has definitely been a positive experience for her.”

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“My therapist really listens to me. She is very understanding and helpful with my journey through anxiety.”

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I have been seeing Jessica P. at Giesken Counseling for the better part of a year now, and I cannot recommend her enough! She is wonderful and has helped me immensely as I navigate all the things that come after welcoming a new baby. The office staff are also always friendly as well, and it was very easy to try another counselor (Jessica) when I first started with Giesken after the first person I saw was not a good fit.

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"Alexis has helped me so much. Just recently, I've been diagnosed with cancer and divorce, and I totaled my pickup. I enjoy therapy, and she's so down to earth, and that makes it easier to open up. And Mckenzie at the front desk, she's so good at her job, especially being so young, very responsible and thorough."

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"Our grandson has been visiting one of the wonderful counselors at GCS for the last three months, and we couldn’t be happier! It’s heartwarming to see his smile coming back, and he’s enjoying more happy days. Plus, he’s doing a great job managing his emotions. We’re so thankful our daughter discovered GCS for him!"

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“A loved one saw David. David's patient manner and demeanor were a perfect match. Patient /counselor worked together to develop goals, evaluating progress and roadblocks during sessions. David ensured my loved one felt their treatment plan was their own, ensuring autonomy and respect, building confidence, and providing helpful counsel to specific challenges.” 

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Voices of Healing: Podcasts to Guide You Through Grief

Podcast: On a Dragonfly's Wings: Grief

On a Dragonfly's Wings, "Let's Talk About IT. ALL.THE.THINGS"

Episode: 9: Grief May 8, 2024

In this episode, we speak with Jerilynn Jacobson, the owner of Giesken Counseling Services. As a grief-certified professional, Jerilynn guides us through the grief process, emphasizing that each person experiences grief in their own unique way.

Additionally, she provides valuable advice for those looking to support someone who is grieving. It can be challenging to know how to respond when someone we care about is facing a difficult time. Jerilynn offers practical suggestions to help navigate the uncomfortable aspects of grief.

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Podcast: Tis the Season for Holiday Grief

On a Dragonfly's Wings, "Let's Talk About IT. ALL.THE.THINGS." 

Episode 19: Tis the Season of Holiday Grief, Dec, 11, 2024

Jerilynn Jacobson from Giesken Counseling joins us this episode to talk all things holiday grief. This season is so full of joy and yet at the same time, holds so much sadness for many who have lost loved ones. We miss their presence and being a part of our traditions.

Grief is normal, and it is okay to be sad and joyful, even simultaneously. This season is about giving ourselves grace and being kind to ourselves. It's about finding ways that work for us to memorialize our loved ones as a way to include them. And it's a time to set boundaries and be aware that we may not have the bandwidth for all the things that holidays bring. AND THAT'S OKAY. 

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